Tammy Slatonhasn’t been very kind to her older sister,Amanda Halterman, and their feud could hurt1000-lb Sisters. Tammy first appeared on the show in 2020 when she weighed over 600 pounds and wanted to get fit. Meanwhile,Amanda was dealing with a difficult situationas she wasfinalizing her divorce from her former husband, Jason Halterman, which is why she didn’t appear in the show’s first few seasons. It wasn’t until1000-Lb Sistersseason 4 that Amanda finally made her reality TV debut, revealing her complicated relationship with Tammy.

Tammy and Amanda displayed signs of personal issues as soon as they began interacting in front of the cameras. They faced problems such as resentment, communication gaps, and differing viewpoints, preventing them from being in sync. Amanda always felt she sacrificed for her family and tried her best to support Tammy. However, Tammy believed thatAmanda and her children hadn’t shown her respectin the past. In addition, theirrespective weight loss journeys led to a sense of competition between them, with both arguing over who is the most attractive after undergoing a full-body transformation.

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Tammy Was Mean-Spirited About Amanda’s Split

Tammy & Amanda Have Never Seen Eye To Eye

Tammy has shown a lack of love and kindness towards her elder sister, Amanda, in recent seasons. Despite Amanda’s ongoing health problems, Tammy has made hurtful comments without considering her sister’s feelings. For example, when thefamily planned a trip to the UK, Tammy blatantly ignored Amanda’s presence.

She even said she didn’t care if Amanda joined them on the family trip. When Amanda tried to work things out with Tammy, asking her how she wanted their relationship to continue, Tammy responded negatively by saying,“Right now, I don’t,“and walked away.

Tammy Seems Angry With A Lot Of Her Relatives

Tammy Ridicules Amy For The Decisions She Made

While Tammy is proud of her weight loss, she’s also feeling sad about her excess skin. Her struggles with criticism on social media have affected her mindset and may explain why she is often irritated around her family.

Tammy has been angry with some relatives, including Amy Slaton, whom she called out for exposing her butt on a girl’s night. Recently, shechose not to join her family on an outing to the water and instead sat in the car, feeling ignored. It appearsTammy continues to see herself as a victimand blames others for her negative emotions.

Tammy’s Living A Secret Lifestyle

Tammy Is Keeping Her Love Affair Hidden

Tammy’s romantic struggles may also be a reason she is distant from her family members.

In the most recent season, Tammy discussed how she came out as a pansexual. She revealed that after the death of her husband, Caleb Willingham, she hadstopped dating men and entered into a secret romantic relationship with a woman.

TheTLCstar doesn’t want her family to know about her relationship because she is concerned about theiropinions and fears judgment from them, which would bring more negativity. Tammy doesn’t believe her family will support her. She is slowly becoming distant from everyone amid rumors that she may eventually leave1000-lb Sisters.

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