One of90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way’s most talked-about couplesmay have quietly called it quits, and their recent social media activity is raising major red flags. James Solis, a Maine-based elevator mechanic,connected with Meitalia “Tatha” Tantri online. After two months of messaging, he flew to Indonesia, met her in person, and proposed within days, marking the start of their whirlwind romance.
WhenThe Other Waypremiered, the couple lived in Maine, whereTatha faced mysterious health issuesand homesickness. She ultimately decided toreturn to Indonesia for treatment,and James joined her, uprooting his life and career. Their abrupt move highlighted how unprepared they were emotionally and financially.
Their Indonesian experience tested them in cramped living conditions, money struggles, a rushed local wedding,and clashing life goals, like James not wanting children. These tensionscaused conflict with Tatha’s familyand eventually led to James returning to the U.S. to rebuild their financial stability.
Their time in Indonesia brought several challenges. They lived in tight spaces, faced financial stress, and had a quick wedding without much planning. On top of that, they didn’t agree on big life choices, like whether to have children. These issues caused tension, especially with Tatha’s family, and ledJames to return to the U.S. alone.Now, signs suggest this shocking90 Day Fiancécouple may have ended their relationship.
James & Meitalia Proved They Don’t Think Things Through
The Hidden Truth Behind James & Meitalia’s Big Move To Indonesia
James and Meitalia decided to move to Indonesia but didn’t tell their friends or family. James worked for his family’s business and kept the move a secret, afraid of their reaction. Leaving without saying goodbye hurt their loved ones. This choice showedthey didn’t fully think throughhow such a sudden move would affect everyone.
They weren’t ready financially for such a big move. James and Meitaliasold their things and used their savings, but had no job waiting in Indonesia. James thought he could work for Meitalia’s family, but they never talked about money. With no real plan, they quickly ran into problems, showing they hadn’t prepared enough before leaving.
Things got worse when unexpected problems came up. James told Meitalia at the last minute that their dog couldn’t move with them because the paperwork wasn’t finished. He also admittedhe might not want children, which surprised Meitalia.
These sudden changes showed they hadn’t talked enough or planned well before making such a big move.
James & Meitalia Moved Back To Maine
James & Meitalia Faced New Challenges After Returning To Maine
James and Meitalia decided tomove back to Maineafter living abroad in Indonesia due to Meitalia’s homesickness and lingering health concerns. Their plans originally aimed at solving her medical issues and cultural discomfort, but the challenges of life overseas, such as financial struggles, family tension, and dissatisfaction, prompted their return. This shift was proof of their real-world pressures and evolving priorities.
Since returning to Maine, the couplereunited with their dog Jojoand reconnected with family and friends. Social media posts show them traveling around the U.S., visiting places like Death Valley and New Hampshire. Their decision to stay child-free and focus on rebuilding financially reflects a more grounded chapter in their relationship after the uncertainties of their international move.
Although they still face obstacles such as health concerns, money recovery, andMeitalia not loving the cold weather, their return shows they want more stability. James started looking at job options back in the U.S., possibly with his family’s business, while Meitalia began focusing on her jewelry shop and growing her social media presence.
Tatha Slammed James On Social Media
“My Ex-Boyfriend”
90 Day Fiancé bloggerkikiandkibbitzrecently noticed that something wasn’t right between Tatha and James on Instagram. The creator asked their followers if something was wrong with the couple. They shared a screenshot of Tatha’s Instagram profile, specifically her bio. Tatha’s bio mentioned, “making you say ‘that’s so me’!”apart from her writing that she is a Reel creator. However, it also added the text, “my ex bf @james_90day.”
Tatha had tagged James in her bio and referred to him as her ex-boyfriend instead of her husband and partner on90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way. However, Tatha didn’t mind explaining what she meant. She also seemingly changed her bio after a while, probably after fans noticed it. She removed the line about the “ex bf” entirely. Interestingly, Tatha posted a series of Stories suggesting why she could have done it.
Tatha posted a picture of herself sitting alone in the woods amid dried-up leaves and looking lonely. She wrote a quote, “No matter how much it hurts today, losing someone who doesn’t have respect for you isn’t a loss.” It looked like Tatha was referring to James due to the change she’d made briefly in her bio. Then followed a different quote on similar lines.
“When someone breaks their most fundamental promise. They don’t deserve to remain in your life.”
Tatha’s post said that when someone breaks their fundamental promise, they don’t deserve to remain in a person’s life. Meanwhile, Tatha’s Stories seemingly prompted James to share a cryptic post of his own. James took to Instagram to share a picture of himself with a strange caption.
He wrote,“Think about your actions and think about the consequences.” He added that nothing is worth losing someone who truly loves them. James’ caption seemed to be a direct response to what Tatha had shared in her Story about a person deserving to remain in someone’s life.
James was adding some fuel to the speculations about a possible split.
Can Tatha & James' Relationship Be Saved?
Will Tatha & James Be Seen On The Last Resort Next?
Tatha and James haven’t beenon any recent90 Day Fiancéshows, but fans are now wondering if they’re still together. Tatha called James her“ex-boyfriend” in her Instagram bio before quickly deleting it. She also posted quotes about being disrespected, which made people think their relationship might be in trouble, even though they haven’t said anything directly.
James posted his own message on Instagram that seemed to reply to Tatha’s. He wrote about thinking before acting and notlosing someone who really loves you.His post came right after hers, so fans believe they were sending messages to each other. Their silence and these messages make people think they might be having problems as a couple.
The couple hasn’t shared much online recently, and they aren’t in any new90 Day Fiancéspin-offs. This has led some fans to believe they could bejoining the next season ofThe Last Resort.That show helps couples fix their issues with therapy, and their social media hints suggest they may be a good fit for it.
If Tatha and James go onThe Last Resort, they might finallytalk openly about their issues. The show could help them figure out if they want to stay together or go their separate ways. Right now, it’s hard to know what’s really going on, but90 Day Fiancé: The Other Wayfans will keep watching closely to see what happens next with their relationship.
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